Oh man so I upgraded my PC, and got my new art screen, then I also upgraded to Photoshop CS6!!
Wohoo! not I have better stuff so I can achieve more... WRONG!!!
Turns out I am learning simple things all over again, for one the blending brush, after weeks of playing with settings adjusting the brushes, I still could not find a solution. Ehe Brush just would not blend 2 colors it airbrush over the one color.
So I ended up googling for solutions, article after article I found with people on same issue as me, at first I thought it was my screen that was not working well with Photoshop CS6. Then realized no that is not the issue... so I finally gave up!
A week passed with me trying to reason out the problem and then finally decided to try googling again!!!
Lo and behold I found a way to rectify the problem:
Yes me being a dummie it gave me a great laugh and the answer was pretty damn simple in the end...
Made my life difficult it has, but int he end I can get back to my art!!! Wohoo
So if there is people out there with same issue. here is the answer.